Share with your mate exactly what it is that makes you feel loved. Always keep the discussion on a positive basis without a hint of reproach for past mistakes your partner may have made. Remember, you can never enhance or rekindle the emotions of love by heaping a sense of failure on your partner. I cannot overemphasize this enough. Never in the slightest way put a feeling of guilt upon your mate.
Ed Wheat, Love-Life for Every Married Couple