A Person needs 3 Things
/They say a person needs 3 things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for. - Tom Bodett
They say a person needs 3 things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for. - Tom Bodett
“There’s this myth that you have to go all in on a project or initiative to be successful, when it’s actually better to do a personal real options approach,” says Nathan Furr.
Nathan and Susannah Furr, authors of The Upside of Uncertainty: A Guide to Finding Possibility in the Unknown, were introduced to the concept after interviewing Ben Feringa, recipient of the 2016 Nobel Prize in Chemistry for his work on molecular machines. The Furrs asked Feringa if he faced uncertainty on his road to a scientific breakthrough.
“He laughed and said, ‘It was all uncertainty,'” recalls Nathan Furr.
Feringa told the Furrs that he encourages his students to have at least two projects going, one certain and one uncertain. “Striving for certainty will lead you down false paths or lead you to commit too long to projects that won’t work, or to uninteresting projects that will work,” he explained.
Stephenie Vozza writing in Fast Company
The best things in life aren't things.
Many of our best achievements and meaningful experiences come from a trying time of ambiguity. Instead professor Nathan Furr and entrepreneur Susannah Harmon Furr argue that uncertainty and possibility are two sides of the same coin. By learning to welcome and cope with the gray area, an individual can reach better outcomes.
Curt Nickisch writing in the Harvard Business Review
Change is the price of survival.
To love someone means to see him as God intended him. -Fyodor Dostoevsky (born Nov. 11, 1821)
Psychologists say that the feelings that often crop up in autumn stem from our discomfort with change, and an anxiety and uncertainty about what that change will bring. The melancholy we feel is a form of grief, mourning the lost sunlight, the ease of summertime, and the greenery that abounds in the warm weather.
But it’s not all bad. Fall also brings with it bright, brisk days, pumpkin patches and cozy sweaters. Somewhere in the crunching leaves, crackling fires and chilly air, you might locate a feeling of possibility, even electricity.
And all of these things — the anxiety, the promise and even the rumination — make it the ideal season to build resilience and practice mindfulness.
Erik Vance writing in the New York Times
Carpe diem! Rejoice while you are alive; enjoy the day; live life to the fullest; make the most of what you have. It is later than you think. – Horace
Work is not a series of words on a LinkedIn profile. It’s a series of moments in the world. And if you don’t enjoy those moments, no sequence of honorifics will dispel your misery.
Some people take jobs with long commutes not fully considering what it will do to their health. Or they take jobs that require lots of travel not fully intuiting what it will mean for their family life. Or they’ll take horribly difficult jobs for money they don’t need, or take high-status jobs for a dopamine rush with a half-life of about three days. If you want to be smarter about your beingness in time, either you can read a lot of impenetrable philosophy or you can listen to Jim. Don’t take the job you want to talk about at parties for a couple of minutes a month. Take the job you want to do for hundreds of hours a year.
Derek Thompson writing in The Atlantic
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What: Press censorship on college campuses is unfortunately alive and well—hear about how to advocate for increased statutory protections for college journalists.
Who: FIRE (Foundation for Individual Rights in Education) Legislative and Policy Director Joe Cohn
When: 4 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Student Press Freedom Initiative
What: This event explores this worldwide phenomenon of violence against journalists by focusing on two cases – Palestine and Mexico. The event aims to promote a far-reaching and free ranging exploration of the forces working to suppress truth-telling in these two regions and beyond while situating the issue within a larger problem of free expression and the right to free speech.
Who: Nancy Postero, Moderator, UCSD Human Rights and Migration Program
Amanda Batarseh, UCSD, Department of Literature
Farid Abdel Nour, SDSU, Dept of Political Science
Celeste González de Bustamante, University of Texas, School of Journalism & Media
Marco Werman, Host of PRI’s The World
When: 5 pm, Pacific
Where: Zoom and in person
Cost: Free
Sponsor: UC San Diego Democracy Lab
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Who: Molly Coke, chief client experience officer of Firespring
When: 3 pm, Eastern
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Who: Moderator: Radio Boston host Tiziana Dearing;
Eileen McNamara is a Boston Globe columnist who has won many national awards
Margaret Sullivan is a former media columnist for the Washington Post and author of the new book “Newsroom Confidential: Lessons (and Worries) from an Ink-stained Life.”
When: 6:30 pm, Eastern
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Cost: $5
Sponsor: WBUR radio Boston
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Who: Jay Wilkinson is the founder and CEO of Firespring
When: 2 pm, Central
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Who: Roman Anin, founder of the independent Russian outlet iStories, and Anna Babinets, editor-in-chief of Ukrainian investigative newsroom Slidstvo.info
When: 12 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Pulitzer Center
Who: Sevgil Musaieva is a Ukrainian journalist from Crimea, editor-in-chief of Ukranian newspaper Ukrayinska Pravda, recipient of 2022 International Press Freedom Award, and featured in TIME’s Top 100 people of 2022.
When: 1 pm, London
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Reuter’s Institute
Psychologists like to group coping strategies into two main types: emotion-focused and problem-focused. Emotion-focused strategies change the way we feel, like distracting ourselves, getting support from friends, or looking at the situation from a different perspective. Problem-focused strategies, on the other hand, involve taking action to solve the problem directly. No one strategy works all the time, and you’ll often see people get stuck in their favorite way of coping. If you tend toward distraction and denial, you might avoid dealing with a problem that you actually could have solved; if you’re an inveterate problem-solver, you might feel helpless and angry when confronting a problem—or a loved one’s—that has no solution, when all that’s really needed is support and connection.
Kira M. Newman writing for Greater Good Magazine
Never, in peace or war, commit your virtue or your happiness to the future. Happy work is best done by the man who takes his long-term plans somewhat lightly and works from moment to moment “as to the Lord.” It is only our daily bread that we are encouraged to ask for. The present is the only time in which any duty can be done or any grace received.
CS Lewis, The Weight of Glory
The cost of a thing is the amount of life that must be exchanged for it. -Henry David Thoreau
Words have profound suggestive power, and there is healing in the very saying of them. Utter a series of panicky words and your mind will immediately go into a mild state of nervousness. You will perhaps feel a sinking in the pit of your stomach that will affect your entire physical mechanism. If, on the contrary, you speak peaceful, quieting words, you mind will react in a peaceful manner.
Use such a word as “tranquility.” Repeat that word slowly several times. Tranquility is one of the most beautiful and melodic of all English words, and the mere saying of it tends to induce a tranquil state.
Another healing word is “serenity.” Picturize serenity as you say it. Repeat it slowly and in the mood of which the word is a symbol. Words such as these have a healing potency when used in this manner.
It is also helpful to use lines from poetry or passages from the Scriptures. The words of the Bible have a particularly strong therapeutic value. Drop them into your mind, allowing them to “dissolve” in consciousness, and they will spread a healing balm over your entire mental structure. This is one of the simplest processes to perform and also one of the most effective in attaining peace of mind.
Norman Vincent Peale
The Power of Positive Thinking
Our brains are designed to pick up on what’s new or changing around us. In the digital world, things are changing and being posted every few seconds. News sites and social media are also – and purposefully – designed in an easily digestible way that draws us in. It’s no wonder so many of us have butterfly brains.
A well functioning brain should wander every few minutes. It makes us more creative and stops our brain from burning out. So don’t resist it. However, the mistake many of us are now making is when we take a break from ‘work information’ we replace it with an endless stream of information from social media or the news or whatever else is online. Digital breaks don’t have an end point – you can spend hours flitting around and then you feel overloaded. Or you can stay up late, mindlessly browsing, even when you’re exhausted.
Think about it. If you click on a news story about a war that’s heartbreaking, then a political leader you feel frustrated by, then a social media photo that makes you feel inadequate, no wonder you feel spent and stressed.
Josh Davis, director of research at the NeuroLeadership Institute in New York and author of new book Two Awesome Hours, quoted in the Telegraph
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Who: Natanya Anderson GM, Strategic Services for Khoros; David Low Global CMO for Talkwalker; Dan Rucolas Lead, Marketing Reporting for Kraft Heinz
When: Noon, Central
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: AdWeek, Talkwalker
What: A discussion of the issues student journalists are facing in schools, what rights they have, and where they can get help.
Who: Adriana Chavira: Teacher/Journalism Advisor,
Daniel Pearl Magnet HS
Nathalie Miranda: Former Student Editor, Peal Post
Mike Hiestand: Student Press Law Center
Susan Seager: Adjunct Law Professor, UC Irvine Press Freedom Project
Moderated by Benjamin Davis, Associate Professor, Broadcast & Digital Journalism, Cal State Northridge
When: 8 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Society of Professional Journalists, LA Chapter
What: Allows journalists with legal questions to help find answers.
Who: Attorney Matthew Leish
When: 5 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Deadline Club of New York
What: MacArthur Foundation President John Palfrey discusses with editor Stuart N. Brotman his book "The First Amendment Lives On", a collection of conversations with First Amendment scholars and advocates.
Who: Stuart Brotman, John Palfrey
When: 6 pm, Central
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: American Writers Museum
What: We want to dig into some key questions like: How do you find a narrative structure that works for your story? What are editors looking for in long-form features? And essentially — how do you take a mountain of reporting and turn it into an engaging piece of journalism?
Who: Katherine Bagley is the executive editor of Grist, a nonprofit media organization dedicated to telling stories of climate solutions and a just future; Tom Huang is Assistant Managing Editor for Journalism Initiatives at The Dallas Morning News; Sandi Villarreal is Deputy Editor, Digital at Texas Monthly.
When: 4 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: The Uproot Project, a network for journalists of color covering environmental issues, as well as students and others aspiring to cover this beat.
What: Tips for uncovering insights about your brand and industry that can help strengthen consumer engagement The best metrics to use to analyze your competition and key benchmarking metrics to help grow your business The vital role social and media channels play in ensuring your content resonates with your target audience
Who: Mike Baglietto, Global Head of Market Insights at NetBase Quid
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Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: AdWeek
What: How to cover crime at their college — public or private — and how to get around potential roadblocks thrown up by admins and campus police.
Who: Lindsie Rank, a graduate of the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill’s Law, Media and Communication dual-degree program, through which she earned a juris doctorate and a master’s in mass communication with a focus on First Amendment law.
When: 1 pm, Central
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: College Media Association
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Who: Steve Padilla, a nationally recognized writing coach and longtime editor with the Los Angeles Times
When: 6pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free for members
Sponsor: National Association of Hispanic Journalists and Google News Lab
What: Learn about Google’s newest tool, Pinpoint, explicitly built with journalists in mind. We’ll explore public collections, as well as learn how to upload document sets to examine through powerful search functionality, including searching handwriting and text within images. And we’ll show you how to use Pinpoint to transcribe audio and video files, such as interviews and meetings. We’ll also review some case studies and see how U.S. newsrooms have used Pinpoint in their work.
When: 7 pm, Eastern
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: Journalism & Women Symposium
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Who: Delphine Fabre-Hernoux Chief Data & Analytics Officer, North America Wavemaker; Laura McElhinney EVP, Chief Data Officer Horizon Media; Nathan Casey Executive Director, CRM, Loyalty, Digital, Ecommerce IHOP; Mike Peralta VP & GM T-Mobile Advertising Solutions
When: Noon, Central
Where: Zoom
Cost: Free
Sponsor: AdWeek
Once you step outside, pick a random number between 1 and 100. Take that number of steps, and look beneath your feet. If you look around to find something inspiring, odds are you will.
Paul Piff quoted in the Washington Post
Employees look to leaders for guidance on culture, but they tend to discount lofty statements about abstract values. Instead, they closely observe what leaders do for signals about what behavior is encouraged, expected, and tolerated.
There is no correlation between what companies aspire to and how employees assess them on corporate core values. When leaders act consistently with core values, however, it is one of the most powerful predictors of how positively employees rate their corporate culture.
Donald Sull and Charles Sull writing for the MIT Sloan Management Review
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