Liking
/Liking is commercial culture’s substitute for loving. -Jonathan Franzen
Liking is commercial culture’s substitute for loving. -Jonathan Franzen
I learned the danger of excessive caution long ago, when I consulted for huge Fortune 500 companies. The single biggest problem I encountered—shared by virtually every large company I analyzed—was investing too much of their time and money into defending old ways of doing business, rather than building new ones. We even had a proprietary tool for quantifying this misallocation of resources that spelled out the mistakes in precise dollars and cents. Senior management hated hearing this, and always insisted that defending the old business units was their safest bet. After I encountered this embedded mindset again and again and saw its consequences, I reached the painful conclusion that the safest path is usually the most dangerous. If you pursue a strategy—whether in business or your personal life—that avoids all risk, you might flourish in the short run, but you flounder over the long term.
Ted Gioia writing in The Atlantic
What other people label or might try to call failure, I have learned is just God’s way of pointing you in a new direction. –Oprah Winfrey (born Jan. 29, 1954)
You can’t force everyone to see the value in your group, just as you can’t force everyone to see the value in you as an individual. But you can control how you see yourself, and the narrative you tell yourself about your group and the world. The only way out from the group-narcissism trap is up, by transcending your group’s feelings of entitlement and connecting with fellow humans—even when it’s easier to believe that you’re special.
Scott Barry Kaufman writing in The Atlantic
Sir Nicholas Winton organized the rescue and passage to Britain of about 669 mostly Jewish children destined for the Nazi death camps. Fifty years later, The BBC arranged for him to meet with some of those children
Thursday, Jan. 27 is International Holocaust Remembrance Day
This is the work of healing. You deny what hurts, what you fear. You avoid it at all costs. Then you find a way to welcome and embrace what you’re most afraid of. And then you can finally let it go.
Auschwitz survivor Edith Eva Eger in her book The Choice
We are not retreating – we are advancing in another direction. -General Douglas MacArthur (born Jan. 26, 1880)
In the pressure situation, you tend to fall back on the old solutions. You don’t want to take the risk of going down a road that doesn't pay off at all. And then you get stuck, because you’re not excited. -Brian Eno
The attributes which make for effective leadership depend on the situation and which the leader is functioning. There are no traits that guarantee successful leadership in all situations. the leader of the University faculty may have quite different attributes from the commander of a military attack team. the qualities required of a legislative leader are not those required of a religious leader. This is not to say that the setting or context is everything and the attributes of the individual nothing. What produces a good result is the combination of a particular context and an individual with the appropriate qualities to lead in that context.
John W. Gardner, On Leadership
He who will not apply new remedies must expect new evils; for time is the greatest innovator. -Frances Bacon (Born: Jan. 22, 1561)
The fear of losing something appears to be a greater motivator to cheat than the lure of a gain.
Kerry Ritchie, who researches how to improve teaching at the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada, says the majority of academic cheating is conducted by high-achieving students, (60% of offenders earned grades 80% or more). While cheating in education is not the same as cheating during play, if there are similarities it's that those at the top feel a pressure to maintain their status. Players are more likely to behave dishonestly if they can say that it benefits other people as well as themselves.
William Park writing in BBC Future
A culture that funnels its dreams of self-actualization into salaried jobs is setting itself up for collective anxiety, mass disappointment, and inevitable burnout. -Derek Thompson
Whoever protects himself against what is new and strange and thereby regresses to the past, falls into the same neurotic condition as the man who identifies himself with the new and runs away from the past. The only difference is that the one has estranged himself from the past, and the other from the future.
CG Jung, Modern Man in Search of a Soul
Creative minds are rarely tidy. -John Gardner
Keep your eyes open before marriage. half shut afterwards. - Benjamin Franklin (Born: Jan. 17, 1706)
Dusti Talavera said she saw the children fall into the pond through her apartment window, and immediately ran out to help. One firefighter says what she did was “amazing.” Watch a 9-News video report below or read the story here.
Recent findings suggest that age beliefs may play a key role in the development of Alzheimer’s disease. Tracking 4,765 participants over four years, the researchers found that positive expectations of ageing halved the risk of developing the disease, compared to those who saw old age as an inevitable period of decline. Astonishingly, this was even true of people who carried a harmful variant of the APOE gene, which is known to render people more susceptible to the disease. The positive mindset can counteract an inherited misfortune, protecting against the build-up of the toxic plaques and neuronal loss that characterise the disease.
David Robson, The Expectation Effect: How your Mindset Can Transform Your Life
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. –Martin Luther King (born: Jan. 15, 1929)
Ontology is the study of being. Therefore, an ontology of the self is a person's account of how he or she came to be. Hankiss finds that young adults 10 to use four different kinds of “strategies” in constructing their ontologies of self: the dynastic (a good past gives birth to a good present), the antithetical (a bad past gives birth to a good present),the compensatory ( a good past gives birth to a bad present), and the self-absolutory (a bad past gives birth to a bad present).
Dan McAdams, The Stories We Live By
Confusion between leadership and official authority has a deadly effect on large organizations. -John W. Gardner
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