Articles of Interest - June 3

***TECHNOLOGY

Because of AI, the value of a computer science degree will “diminish over time,” says investor Mark Cuban  Vox 

This AI uses echolocation to identify what you're doing  Wired 

Improving robots’ grasp requires a new way to measure it in humans  Economist

***BIG DATA & AI 

A means to preserve the integrity of video, AI models and digital archives—data that can be easily manipulated to change historical facts  Computer Weekly 

Google’s AI can create videos from start and end frames alone  Venture Beat 

SpaceX’s Starlink satellites are clearly visible in the sky—and astronomers aren’t happy  MIT Technology Review

 ***SOCIAL MEDIA  

People Are Spending More Time on Instagram, at the Expense of Facebook and Snapchat  Adweek 

The quiet power of sound design  Wired 

Nancy Pelosi accuses Facebook of 'lying to the public' after it refuses to remove fake video  Mashable  

Instagramming Crowds Pack National Parks  NPR  

***WRITING & READING

A high school student says her principal’s graduation speech plagiarized Ashton Kutcher  FOX-8 

My phone helped me fall in love with books again  Salon  

***LANGUAGE

This crafty robot can write in languages it’s never seen before  Wired 

Iceland is inventing a new vocabulary for a high-tech future  Quartz 

***LITERATURE

Best Fiction – Spring 2019  The What 

Tony Horwitz, Author and Pulitzer Prize Winner, Dies At 60  Slate

The best recent poetry – review roundup  The Guardian

'Start With Truth And End With Art': Poet Ocean Vuong On His Debut Novel  NPR

How can I expand my reading of Indian literature?  The Guardian

Review: ‘Normal People’ harkens to 19th century literature to tell compelling contemporary love story  Post & Courier   

***POETRY

‘Don’t Read Poetry’ is a literary manual for the Instagram era  Washington Post

Five Centuries of Yiddish Poetry, Written by Women  Forward 

New doctors in Scotland are being given a book of poetry to help them deal with the stresses of the job  The i Paper

The Univ of Tenn at Chattanooga Poetry program receives $1 million endowment  News-9 

Foals Frontman Yannis is Currently Obsessed with Poetry And The Band Low  Vice 

An introduction to Georgian poetry, and the country’s beautiful alphabet Emerging Europe

Poetry Out Loud: The Finale Edition  Book Riot

***POETS

The Cautionary Tale of the ‘Female Byron’  The New York Times 

Fans Worldwide Prepare To Honor Bicentennial Of Walt Whitman's Birth  NPR 

A San Diego Poet and What She Saw in El Salvador  Consortium News

Walt Whitman’s Leaves of Grass and the complex life of the ‘poet of America’   The Conversation

Tips from a Pulitzer Prize-winning poet  Everett Herald

What a San Diego Poet saw in El Salvador  Consortium News  

***GENDER   

Why women are called 'influencers' and men 'creators'  Wired 

Professor paid less than men: Judge says that doesn’t matter  Inside Higher Ed  

Virtual reality: how women are taking a leading role in the sector The Guardian

A Starbucks Customer Ordered a Simple Coffee. Then the Barista Went Too Far Inc.

***RACE & ETHNICITY ISSUES

Kishi Bashi Uses The History Of Japanese Internment To Explore America Today  NPR

Who's doing the heavy lifting in terms of diversity and inclusion work?  Inside Higher Ed

Harriet Tubman on the $20 bill: Stamp puts Tubman's face on the twenty  USA Today

Who Counts as a Person of Color? Conversations on Diversity  Inside Higher Ed

***LEGAL ISSUES 

Is a construction company right in suing a cafe over the word cat?  The Guardian

Former student sues Oklahoma University over false rankings  The Oklahoman

This Teen Planned A School Shooting. But Did He Break The Law?  NPR

 ***GAMES & SPORTS

What online chess taught one teen about digital life  Wired  

Facing the ubiquity of fortnite in our kids' lives  Wired  

***PRIVACY & SECURITY  

Security Experts Express Concern Over Electronic System To Check-In At Polling Places  NPR 

Apple promises privacy, but iPhone apps share your data with trackers, ad companies and research firms  Washington Post 

Flipboard database hacks exposed users' account information  Cnet

Secret tracking device found in Navy email to Navy Times amid leak investigation raises legal, ethical questions  Military Times 

Russia demands Tinder give user data to secret services  Associated Press

Microsoft says mandatory password changing is “ancient and obsolete  Ars Technica

Privacy is Apple’s most premium product  The Next Web

***PRODUCING MEDIA 

Old politicians flock to new film media  Axios 

YouTube doesn’t want you to download their videos  Tools for Reporters  

***RELIGION

The False and Idolatrous Narrative of 'American Christianity' (opinion)  SoJo 

After harassment of Sikh bus driver, Maryland school district agrees to awareness training  Religious News Service 

The so-called (Billy Graham) Library is not a library: It has no archives. It has no archivist  Religious News Service 

Why politics may kill white churches (opinion)  Religious News Service

***RELIGION & MONEY 

Evangelical financial watchdog faces scrutiny over backing of errant megachurch  Religious News Service

The preachers getting rich from poor Americans  BBC 

A wealthy televangelist explains his fleet of private jets: ‘It’s a biblical thing’  Washington Post   

***POLITICS

Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X outvoted their elders in 2018 midterms  Pew Research Center

***GOOD NEWS 

Arizona softball team throws head-shaving party in support of teammate’s cancer fight  WHNT

I hated my neighbor: Then one lesson led to a life-changing friendship  Washington Post

Georgia girl saves sister from drowning in pool  WSAV-3  

***REALLY?!

6 Ideas That Were So Ahead Of Their Time Everybody Went Nuts  Cracked 

Lego dispute of biblical proportions sees Bible loving exhibitor walk from show  Stuff New Zealand 

***MUSIC 

Metadata is the biggest little problem plaguing the music industry  The Verge

Generative music apps let your phone write songs for you  Wired   

***FILM

Carpe Diem! Dead Poets Society Turns 30: See Where the Cast Is Now  People 

***THE BUSINESS OF MEDIA  

Video measurement standard inches closer to reality  Axios   

Meredith Sells Sports Illustrated to Authentic Brands Group for $110 Million  Variety

***JOURNALISM

Phone Records of AP Journalists Seized by US Government  New York Times  

The latest key newsroom job: membership editor  Digiday 

Former reporter creates ‘Rate my Professor’ for newsrooms  Columbia Journalism Review 

Is this the greatest timed shot in TV journalism?  BoingBoing  

Woman Who Pioneered Investigative Journalism  The Atlantic

***FAKE NEWS 

To fight deepfakes, researchers built a smarter camera  Wired 

How Russia’s disinformation strategy is evolving  Poynter 

I plant trees for a living, but Flat Earthers tell me they don’t exist  Quartz  

I was a Macedonian fake news writer’  BBC  

Researchers Want to Build Fake Photo Detection Tools Right Into Our Cameras  Gizmodo

This doctor is recruiting an army of medical experts to drown out fake health news on Instagram and Twitter  CNBC

Twitter Buys Machine-Learning Startup That Helps Detect Fake News  Media Post  

***STUDENT MEDIA  

Washington Univ sued for violating the Public Records Act  KOMO News

Rutgers trampled the constitution by letting students vote to defund the newspaper, group says  NJ.com

***JOBS

How to quit your job on your terms  Poynter 

Tips on how to break into "long-form investigative journalism"  Twitter 

***FREELANCING

9 tips for branding yourself like a pro   Freelancers Union 

Freelance digital-only or digital-radio pitches on immigrant food, culture and history  PRI  

No, Freelancers are not banks  The Free Lancers 

The New York Times' Wordplay's Solver Stories  New York Times

Radical essay ideas  RaceBaitr

Paid contributors  Vegan lifestyle magazine launching in July  Twitter

Thoughtful, engaging book reviews between 1200-2500 words  Rumpus

Personal essays with a research/critical component  Catapult Story

Personal essays on mental health  The Breakdown

***SEXUAL HARASSMENT & ASSAULT  

Southern Baptist leaders plan to remedy ‘insufficient’ approach to abuse claims  Religious News Service  

This Elite Science Group Finally Has A Way To Expel Members For Sexual Harassment BuzzFeed News

How reporting sexual harassment impacts a woman’s career  Fast Company

***SOCIAL ISSUES 

Key findings about U.S. immigrants  Pew Research Center

Birth Control Still Tops List of Morally Acceptable Issues  Gallup

***BORDER ISSUES

I gave water to migrants crossing the Arizona desert. They charged me with a felony  Washington Post 

Extending 'Zero Tolerance' To People Who Help Migrants Along The Border  NPR

Nearly 900 migrants found at Texas facility with 125-person capacity: DHS watchdog  ABC News  

More people are actually moving from the US to Mexico  Business Insider

Botched family reunifications left migrant children waiting in vans overnight NBC News  

***HEALTH

10,000 Steps Per Day? Fitness Trackers Push It, But How Many Do You Really Need?  NPR

Is working out at the crack of dawn the key to productivity? We put it to the test  Fast Company

New compound which kills antibiotic-resistant superbugs discovered  Science Daily

Viruses and other parasites may sync with their host’s biological clock — or reset it — to gain an advantage  Quanta Magazine

For Patients, It Matters How You Tell Your Story To A Doctor  NPR

***VACCINES

How the anti-vaccine movement crept into the GOP mainstream  Politico

Professor who links vaccines to autism funded through university portal  The Guardian

***TRAVEL

There Are Two Types of Airport People  The Atlantic

13 Ways Hackers Get You When You Travel  Reader’s Digest 

***FOOD

What banned substances might be hiding in your groceries? Find out now  The Guardian 

Fears grow over 'food swamps' as drugstores outsell major grocers  The Guardian 

***FAMILY

Does Having Divorced Parents Affect Your Marriage?  The Atlantic

Where Europe stands on gay marriage and civil unions  Pew Research Center

***CHILDREN 

Nearly 30% of teens sleep with their phones, but parents’ device use may be more problematic  Quarz

The world slime convention! Let's Goo!  Wired 

You can’t teach schoolkids ‘resilience’ when they’re micromanaged every day  The Guardian 

***ANIMALS  

Octopuses' Big Brains And Unique Behavior Spur Basic Research  NPR

***NEUROSCIENCE  

The wagon wheel effect shows the limits of the human brain  Wired  

The Crucial Role of Brain Simulation in Future Neuroscience  Singularity Hub

***PHILOSOPHY

What wrapping a rope around the Earth reveals about the limits of human intuition  Aeon

***PRODUCTIVITY

10 Productivity Hacks From  Wired 

***PERSONAL GROWTH 

Measure Up  Becoming (my blog)

Why compassion fades  Big Think 

***HIGHER ED 

USC’s social work school may lay off nearly half of its staff and eliminate most of its part-time teaching positions  LA Times

College Students Aren't Checking Out Books at Libraries  The Atlantic

Investigation Finds No Basis for Former Arizona State U. Professor’s Viral Claims of Corruption  Chronicle of Higher Ed

US Universities And Retirees Are Funding The Technology Behind China’s Surveillance State  BuzzFeed News

Christian College Professor Resigns in Protest After School Leaders Conceal Lewd, Sexist Comments by Prominent Dean  Bayou Brief 

***LIBERAL ARTS 

The liberal arts are under attack: So why do the rich want their children to study them?  Washington Post

The value of a liberal arts education is more than most know  The Hill  

***TEACHING 

How Should Professors Respond When Students Ask for Accommodations?  Ed Surge 

Why One University Went All Out on Teaching Reading  Chronicle of Higher Ed

***ACADEMIC LIFE 

Why a New Kind of ‘Badge’ Stands Out From the Crowd  Chronicle of Higher Education

Aiding the Writing-Stalled Professor  Chronicle of Higher Education

Jury Trial for Caltech scholar who claimed he was fired for whistleblowing  Pasadena Now

Measure Up

There is no way to quite describe the feeling that I got when I sat down to eat with daughter at the school cafeteria for the first time. She looked up at me. It was a look that said she completely adored me just for being me. That just blew me away. She couldn't hardly sit still, or know what to do with her hands, as if she wanted to hug me.  There was a searching look as if to say, "Who am I?"  "Tell me who I am."

Fathers have a way of planting life mottos in the heads of their daughters.

"Measure Up!" is one of the most often heard. Perhaps it is never verbalized, but a daughter knows what's expected—and her attempts to live up to those expectations from her childhood result in her running her life by guilt. She ends up serving a motto instead of her creator. 

Stephen Goforth

Know your Perfectionist

A study measured three types of perfectionism: self-oriented, or a desire to be perfect; socially prescribed, or a desire to live up to others’ expectations; and other-oriented, or holding others to unrealistic standards. A person living with an other-oriented perfectionist might feel criticized by the perfectionist spouse for not doing household chores exactly the “right” way. Socially prescribed perfectionism is “My self-esteem is contingent on what other people think.”

Perfectionists tend to devalue their accomplishments, so that every time a goal is achieved, the high lasts only a short time, like “a gas tank with a hole in it.” 

There are also different ways perfectionism manifests. Some perfectionists are the sleeping-bag-toting self-flagellants, always pushing themselves forward. But others actually fall behind on work, unable to complete assignments unless they’re, well, perfect. Or they might self-sabotage, handicapping their performance ahead of time. They’re the ones partying until 2 a.m. the night before the final, so that when the C rolls in, there’s a ready excuse. Anything to avoid facing your own imperfections.

Olga Khazan writing in The Atlantic

The Growth Mindset

When people believe that failure is not a barometer of innate characteristics but rather view it as a step to success (a growth mindset), they are far more likely to put in the kinds of effort that will eventually lead to that success. By contrast, those who believe that success or failure is due to innate ability (a fixed mindset) can find that this leads to a fear of failure and a lack of effort.

Carl Hendrick writing in Aeon

Articles of Interest - May 27

***BIG DATA & AI 

The “spooky” quantum world and how the promise of quantum computers may unravel some of the secrets of the universe (video)  ColdFusion

A result never before achieved: the random number generator at the NIST in Boulder relies on counterintuitive quantum behavior  Daily Jstor

Nine investigations that used satellite imagery  Global Investigative Journalism Network

Seven of the best available Python libraries  Tapscape

A primer on PySpark for data science  Toward Data Science

AI learns to write headlines (but not this one)   Axios

Google unveiled an AI system that demonstrated a remarkable talent for seeing through lung cancer’s disguises  Stat News 

***FACIAL RECOGNITION

Facial Recognition Has Already Reached Its Breaking Point  Wired

This Neural Net Can Make A Moving, Talking Face Out Of A Single Still Image (video)  Egor Zakharov

***TECHNOLOGY

Young people and their phones are shaking up banking  Economist

Amazon Is Working on a Device That Can Read Human Emotions  Bloomberg

 ***SOCIAL MEDIA 

Twitter Is Showing More Ads, And People Are Seeing Lots Of Weird Crap As A Result  BuzzFeed News

The Kids Use TikTok Now Because Data-Mined Videos Are So Much Fun   Bloomberg

The Chinese company that bought Grindr wasn't supposed to let Chinese engineers access Americans' data -- but it did   BongBong

CrossFit Deletes Its Facebook Account, Denounces “Utopian Socialists”  Front Office Sports

***INSTAGRAM

10 cliché Instagram posts you'll definitely see this summer  Mashable 

Instagram’s IGTV adds support for horizontal videos — but still no ads  Digiday

Instagram Ruined Travel. A New Generation Of Influencers Is Trying To Fix It  Refinery29

***SNAPCHAT

Snapchat looks to mirror TikTok and Instagram Stories with new in-app music  Axios

How to Use Snapchat’s Gender Swap Filter Everyone’s Talking About  iPhone Hacks

***YOUTUBE

Your Kid Wants to Be a YouTuber? There’s a Camp for That  Wall Street Journal

The tricky task of policing YouTube  Economist

***FAKE NEWS

Moms are going undercover to fight fake autism cures in private Facebook groups  NBC News

Fake News Spreads ‘Farther, Faster, Deeper’ Than Truth, Study Finds  Washington Post 

Facebook: Fake account removal doubles in 6 months to 3B  Associated Press

Deepfakes are getting better—but they’re still easy to spot  ArsTechnica 

***JOURNALISM

In thoughtful interview, Stephen Colbert and Howard Stern talk about what makes a thoughtful interview  AV Club

Why local foundations are putting their money behind a rural journalism collaborative  Harvard’s Nieman Lab

***THE BUSINESS OF JOURNALISM 

NYT editor predicts most local newspapers will 'die in the next five years'  The Hill

Why I disappeared from WJTV in Jackson, Mississippi  Medium 

GateHouse Media lays off journalists across the country  Poynter 

The Boston Globe is the first local newspaper to have more digital subscribers than print   Harvard’s Nieman Lab

How The Guardian is looking to boost reader donations in the US  Digiday

***PERSONAL GROWTH  

Explore your Passion without Pressure  Becoming (my blog)

***WRITING & READING

Here’s Why Authors All Tweet An Ugly Screenshot From The Same Websites  BuzzFeed News

Print writers turn to television for the big bucks  Axios

Debut novel by poet Ocean Vuong picked by booksellers as June Indie #1  Bookweb

Can reading really improve your mental health?  BBC 

Imitation in literature: inspiration or plagiarism? Oxford University Press Blog 

Improve Your Content Strategy with These 4 Proofreading Tools  Business2community 

***PLAGIARISM

How A Software Engineer's Attempt To Make A Crossword Puzzle Exposed A Whole Plagiarism Scandal  Digg 

Studiosity creates new tool targeting accidental plagiarism  The Pie News

***LITERATURE

Fav phrases from literature immortalized as book quote tattoos  My Modern Met  

Anne Frank: the real story of the girl behind the diary  The Guardian

Korean folktales as protest literature  Korean Times 

Poop, realism and Ghibli: Enter the world of children's  literature  Japan Times

***POETRY

I Grew Up In A Fundamentalist Evangelical Community. How I "Rewired" My Brain With Poetry Bustle 

‘I courted poetry early in life’  The Nation

U.S. teen poets find no rhyme or reason to climate peril  Reuters 

“The Spiral Labyrinth,” a Poetry-Sound Collaboration (audio)  Orion Magazine

World War I Poetry (podcast)  Inside Higher Ed

The Making of Poetry by Adam Nicolson review – when Coleridge met the Wordsworths  The Guardian

Can you write a photo into a haiku into a song?  Chicago Tribune  

***POETRY OUTSIDE THE U.S.

In Israel, There Are Poetry Slams For The Deaf  Forward 

Political poetry has dramatic impact at Dawn Raids art exhibition  Asia Pacific Report

Hundreds of Chinese poets compete using trade war as the backdrop  Global Times 

***POETS

The Bittersweet Poetry of “Lima :: Limón”  New Yorker

The Life of Forgotten Poet Letitia Elizabeth Landon  Jstor 

Review: Authors spotlight 41 of state's notable poets  The Advocate   

Poet Gregory Orr Has Been Teaching ‘How to Save Your Life’ for Four Decades  University of Virginia 

Journalist-poet Villanueva writes and delights  Manila Standard 

Poetic Influencer: Marilynn Montaño  OC Weekly

How Walt Whitman’s Decade In Washington Changed His Life — And His Poetry  WAMU

***GENDER    

Warmer Offices Are Better for Women  The Atlantic

My Rapist Apologized  New York Times

Struggling with style Modern dress codes are easier for men than for women  Economist  

How China forged self-made female billionaires   Economist  

New Web Project Immortalizes the Overlooked Women Who Helped Create Rock and Roll in the 1950s  Open Culture

Women’s Issues within political party platforms  Pudding 

News outlets post way more pictures of men than women to Facebook  Harvard’s Nieman Lab

These hidden women helped invent chaos theory  Wired 

***RACE & ETHNICITY ISSUES 

Connectivity drives the Asian American consumer journey Nielson

 Race plays an ever-more important role in voting  Economist

How an internet mob falsely painted a Chipotle employee as racist  CNN

Key facts about Asian Americans, a diverse and growing population  Pew Research

Hate makes a comeback in the Pacific Northwest  Associated Press 

***LEGAL ISSUES  

CBS Sued Over 'Andy Griffith Show' Theme Song  Hollywood Reporter

Youtubers and record labels are fighting over copyright and record labels keep winning  The Verge

***CRIME 

Philly judge stuns wrongly convicted juvenile lifer by setting him free after 21 years in prison  Philly

Muggings are so common, Mexicans buy fake cellphones to hand over in muggings  Associated Press

How The For-Profit Prison Industry Keeps 460,000 Innocent People in Jail Every Day   GQ

***PRIVACY & SECURITY 

Google stored some passwords in plain text for fourteen years  The Verge

How creepy is your smart speaker?  Economist

U.S. May Blacklist Chinese Surveillance Firm, 'New York Times' Reports  NPR  

An 11-year-old changed election results on a replica Florida state website in under 10 minutes  PBS NewsHour 

All the ways google tracks you—and how to stop it  Wired 

***PRODUCING MEDIA

How to Speed Up or Slow Down Any HTML5 Video  LifeHacker

***RELIGION

White Evangelicals Are the Most Islamophobic Americans, Poll Shows  Newsweek

Study: Belief in the ‘Prosperity Gospel’ Does Not Turn People into Successful Entrepreneurs  Baylor

Police are investigating a Megachurch founder accused of hiring a hitman  Relevant Magazine 

Owners of a Noah's Ark replica file a lawsuit over rain damage  CNN

The Day Christian Fundamentalism Was Born  The New York Times  

The history of China’s Muslims and what’s behind their persecution  The Conversation 

Lesbian, gay and bisexual Americans are less religious than straight adults by traditional measures  Pew Research Center

***SOUTHERN BAPTISTS

Southern Baptists Down to Lowest Membership Numbers in 30 Years  Christianity Today  

Only Half of Kids Raised Southern Baptist Stay Southern Baptist Christianity Today

***RELIGION & YOUTH 

Millennial evangelicals more likely to attend church weekly than older generations, poll finds  Christian Post 

Study: 10% of young Christians say they’ve left a church because they felt it didn’t take sex abuse seriously enough  Christian Headlines

***RELIGION AND POLITICS

Steve Bannon’s Academy for the Judaeo-Christian West  Economist

The Debate Grows Over What Religious Freedom Means  NPR

***GOOD NEWS

Man graduates with nursing degree from same university where he started as a janitor  ABC News

Rainbow Village: an entire community in Taiwan is hand-painted by a single man  This is Colossal 

Teenager pushes double-amputee home in wheelchair during storm warning  WBAY

Minnesota woman donates kidney to man who helped rescue her daughter  KARE-11

Homeless high school student becomes valedictorian, gets 50 college scholarships: ‘never let your current situation...be a mountain that you can’t climb’  Newsweek

Classmates work together to help friend see color for the 1st time  WLWT

***ART & DESIGN

Banksy crashes Venice Biennale with street stall  CNN

Typography 2020: A special listicle for America  Practical Typography 

Thirty years ago a show in Paris set out to redraw the art world  Economist

The Art of Doodling  The Paris Review

Meteorological Data Visualized as Mixed Media Sculptures by Nathalie Miebach  This is Colossal

***MUSIC 

How Computers Ruined Rock Music  Rick Beato

The Lives of John Coltrane & Billie Holiday Are Now Told in Two Graphic Novels  Open Culture

Sing My Name If your name is Baby, then seemingly every song is about you. But what if your name isn’t Baby?  Pudding

***FILM 

Rotten Tomatoes will start verifying ticket purchases for audience reviews Tech Crunch

***FREELANCING/CONTESTS  

Are You Ready to Go Freelance?  Harvard Business Review

Freelance writing submissions  Paperback Literary Journal

‘How to' and listicle type pieces  AdWeek

Freelance writing ideas  SELF magazine  

The Future Is Black Female essay competition to win $1,000  Future Black Female

***SEXUAL HARASSMENT & ASSAULT 

Rockefeller University Admits Decades Of Sexual Abuse Complaints Against Children’s Doctor Reginald Archibald  BuzzFeed News 

Mississippi lawmaker was drunk when he ‘punched’ his wife in the face over sex Sun Herald

***SOCIAL ISSUES 

The Mexican-American population is shrinking  Economist

Key facts about Asian origin groups in the U.S.  Pew Research Center

U.S. unauthorized immigrants are more proficient in English, more educated than a decade ago  Pew Research Center 

Visualizing Poverty Across America  Daily Infographic  

***POLITICS

What Is 'Milkshaking,' Britain's Latest Political Trend?  The Atlantic

So Far, $1.57 Billion for Wall Yields 1.7 Miles of Fence  Bloomberg

Trump administration bans CDC from saying 'diversity,' transgender,' 'fetus,' and more   Washington Post

***BUSINESS & FINANCE 

Why Companies Are so Bad at Hiring  Medium 

The human brain can’t contend with the vastness of online shopping  The Atlantic  

How middle-age, middle-class moms are killing JCPenney and Kohl's  Washington Post

***ENVIRONMENT

Why Banning Plastic Grocery Bags Could Be A Bad Move  NPR

Washington becomes first state to legalize using dead bodies for compositing  CNN 

***HEALTH

Episiotomies are painful, risky and not routinely recommended  USA Today

No, Night Owls Aren’t Doomed to Die Early  New York Times  

***HEALTH TECHNOLOGY 

The techie obsession with sleep technology  Economist

CRISPR Used To Modify Viruses And Create New Weapon Against Superbugs  NPR 

Body shop 3D printers will make better implants  Economist

 ***DRUGS

The Many Health Benefits Of Meth  Pacific Standard

Fighting Fentanyl Washington Post 

***TRAVEL

How travelers can avoid common scams  Washington Post

Not all travel ‘hacks’ are good. Here are the ones to avoid  Seattle Times

Top Travel Destinations for US History Buffs  Travel Pulse

***SPORTS & GAMES 

Velocity is strangling baseball — and its grip keeps tightening  The Washington Post

Peru’s government wants its citizens to take up baseball  Economist

***FOOD

The Best Time of the Day to Drink Coffee Isn’t as Soon as You Wake Up  Mental Floss

A food craving is not our body’s way of signaling that it needs a certain nutrient  BBC  

***CHILDREN 

How to make social media safe for children  Economist

Top Baby Names for each State Social Security   Tweet String 

There’s Evidence on How to Raise Children, but Are Parents Listening? New York Times

***ANIMALS 

Soldier reunited with puppy he saved from Syria   News Herald 

Dog Person? It May Be in Your Genes  The New York Times

***PSYCHOLOGY 

Former FBI Body Language Expert Explains The Body Language Cues That Actually Mean Something  Wired 

What Researchers learning about success from tracking preschoolers from the 1960s until today  NPR 

How Carl Jung Inspired the Creation of Alcoholics Anonymous Open Culture

Problems with the American Association of Christian Counselors  The Throckmorton Blog 

***NEUROSCIENCE  

Scientists Find a Volume Knob for Emotional Memories  Wired   

Telepathy Is Real With The Help Of A Computer (video)  NPR  

***HISTORY 

Two decades of research let you take a fly-over of ancient Rome  Smart History 

Last American slave ship is discovered in Alabama  National Geographic  

Who really owns the past?  Aeon 

***RESEARCH  

The Rise of Junk Science Publications  The Walrus

This Is Easily the Best Correction in Science Publishing This Month  Gizimodo

Want to access the raw data behind an academic paper? Good luck  Pudding 

MIT professor accused of claiming others’ scientific discoveries as his own  Stat News

Taiwan considers double-blind peer review for grants  Nature 

Please avoid these reviewers' pet peeves!  NIH

Can Twitter, Facebook, and Other Social Media Drive Downloads, Citations?  Scholarly Kitchen  

***ACADEMIC LIFE 

Institutions generally don't have provisions against professors dating students they just taught Inside Higher Ed 

It’s Taken 5 Decades to Get the Ph.D. Her Abusive Professor Denied Her  New York Times

Rejecting the requirement to publish dissertations online  Inside Higher Ed

Emory University Fires 2 Neuroscientists Accused of Hiding Chinese Ties  TIME

Texas Professors Could Be Criminally Charged if They Don't Report Sexual Harassment or Assault (sub. req’d)  Chronicle of Higher Ed

***STUDENT MEDIA  

Pro-Trump hats worn by students blurred from high school yearbook  WPMT FOX43

When are student newspaper budget cuts unconstitutional? (podcasts)  Student Press Law Center 

***STUDENT LIFE 

Wealthy students disproportionately receive extra time on standardized tests  Axios

Study Finds More Low-Income Students Attending College  Inside Higher Ed

Oregon college student taking pictures dies after falling off side of mountain  NBC News

No sex please, we’re millennials  Economist 

When a college student is home for the summer  New York Times 

***HIGHER ED

“Free college:” Why offering access to something broken does not make it better  Christensen Institute 

Administrators were shocked when the college was sued for discrimination  Inside Higher Ed

Rick Singer faked students’ CVs in college admission bribery scandal. He seems to have faked his own  Associated Press 

Professor says AU Cairo wronged him in canceling his chair after he resisted donor's demands  Inside Higher Ed

Is It Time to Abolish the SAT? (opinion)  Medium 

Baldwin Wallace University ends the school’s formal affiliation with the United Methodist Church  Baldwin Wallace University

Prosecutors subpoenaed records of 9 Chapman University students in admissions scandal  LA Times

Explore your passion without Pressure

“Finding your passion” can feel like a lot of pressure, but it doesn’t have to. All it involves is identifying the things you like to do and are good at and that others value enough so you can cover rent and groceries. If you can’t find it by way of a full-time job, there are always ways to explore it outside the realms of your job, whether that’s by way of a side hustle or a hobby. There may be things that you feel an overwhelming intensity to pursue. If that’s the case, great. If not, find the next right thing, and follow that path.

 Tracy Brower writing in Fast Company

Making Yourself Happy is a Team Effort

The lie of self-sufficiency is that happiness is an individual accomplishment. If I can have just one more victory, lose 15 pounds or get better at meditation, then I will be happy.

But people looking back on their lives from their deathbeds tell us that happiness is found amid thick and loving relationships. It is found by defeating self-sufficiency for a state of mutual dependence. It is found in the giving and receiving of care. It’s easy to say you live for relationships, but it’s very hard to do. It’s hard to see other people in all their complexity. It’s hard to communicate from your depths, not your shallows. It’s hard to stop performing! No one teaches us these skills.

David Brooks writing in The New York Times

"Keeping a “have done" list

"If you are working on one thing all day, it is very easy to remember what you did and give yourself credit for it," says CEO and co-founder Walter Chen. "But if you did 20 things and one is have a conversation with your kid and one is put out a fire, it's often hard to remember those things." Pausing to reflect is an opportunity to remember those accomplishments and to recognize their value. "Giving yourself credit helps you feel productive," says Chen, affirming, "That actually makes you more productive." 

Bottom line: To-do lists are useful for organizing and prioritizing work. But you should also maintain a "have done" list--or at least reflect on your accomplishments for a few minutes at the end of each day--to keep yourself motivated.

Leigh Buchanan writing in Inc.

Articles of Interest - May 20

***SOCIAL MEDIA  

Fears of social media manipulation rock the developing world   Axios  

Queen Elizabeth II Social Media Manager Job Salary and Description Harpers Bazaar  

10 facts about Americans and Facebook  Pew Research Center 

How to save a Tweet thread  Tools for Reporters 

***INSTAGRAM

Instagram killing another feature: Should I just quit?  SlashGear  

Instagram is killing Direct, its standalone Snapchat clone app, in the next several weeks TechCrunch 

Millions of Instagram influencers had their private contact data scraped and exposed  Tech Crunch 

***SNAPCHAT 

#1 app YOLO Q&A is the Snapchat platform’s 1st hit  TechCrunch  

Snapchat has become a content creation tool for Instagram and Twitter users  The Verge

***FACEBOOK

Facebook Announces Restrictions To Its Live Feature  NPR  

Facebook busts Israel-based campaign to disrupt elections in various countries  NBC News  

Facebook Releases a Trio of Maps to aid with Fighting Disease Outbreaks  TechCrunch 

***MOBILE 

How Ditching My Smartphone Let Me Recharge and Reconnect  Discover Magazine

Google suspends some business with Huawei after Trump blacklist   Reuters

***PRIVACY & SECURITY  

It’s Almost Impossible to Tell if Your iPhone Has Been Hacked  Vice  

Microsoft’s First Windows XP Patch in Years Is a Very Bad Sign  Wired  

All Four Major Wireless Carriers Hit With Lawsuits Over Sharing, Selling Location Data  Techdirt

iOS Users Locked Out Of Accounts As Google Confirms Security Vulnerability To Blame  Forbes

UCSD stonewalled attempts to notify women in an HIV research study that their confidential data was breached  iNewsSource 

Microsoft Updates Old System To Respond To New Threat  NPR  

Google uses Gmail to track a history of things you buy — and it’s hard to delete  CNBC 

***FACIAL RECOGNITION 

Face It, You're Being Watched (video)   Bloomberg 

Like It Or Not, Your Face Is In A Database  Digg 

 ***TECHNOLOGY 

San Francisco looks to ban use of facial recognition technologies by city agencies  PS Magazine

Experts Talk Best Practices For Facial Recognition Technology  NPR

Google’s AI can now translate your speech while keeping your voice  MIT Tech Review

***BIG DATA & AI 

Are p-values a gateway drug to dichotomous thinking? Or is it the other way round?  Replication Network

Google’s AI improves accuracy of lung cancer diagnosis, study shows  Stat News

A.I. Took a Test To Detect Lung Cancer; It got an A  New York Times 

Meet one of the data sciences (and former hoops player) working with the Philadelphia 76ers to improve the team’s on court strategy (video)  Bloomberg   

Salaries for data scientists begin to plateau and "It can be very hard for someone with a new degree in data science to find a data science position”  Tech Republic  

Which is the bigger threat: fake news generated by AI or fake news about AI?  PC Mag

AI that reads journal articles and highlights key findings could help researchers stay on top of the latest research—but the technology isn’t ready for prime time  Inside Higher Ed 

Deep learning could be the end of end to end encryption  Forbes 

***PRODUCING MEDIA 

Adobe Tells Users They Can Get Sued for Using Old Versions of Photoshop  Vice

***INTERNET

The Best Free Apps and Software You're Not Already Using  Gizmodo 

Where The Algorithms Can’t Find You  FiveThirtyEight 

***JOURNALISM

The other conservative news network Trump keeps tweeting about, explained  Vox 

California journalists shield law one of the strongest in nation  San Francisco Chronicle

Study Finds US Journalism Is Becoming More Subjective  Courthouse News 

Audit suggests Google favors a small number of major news outlets  Columbia Journalism Review

The cable network that is Foxier than Fox -- and that Trump is promoting  CNN

Bad news, Journalists: Robots are writing really good headlines now  The Next Web

Reporter shot and killed in Mexican tourist resort  Reuters 

Journalism schools need to focus on data, local news, social media and business models StoryBench 

Advice for military veterans in journalism  Twitter 

The power of journalism collaboration is also the power of inclusion — here’s how to harness it Harvard’s Nieman Lab

Don't 'Fact Vomit:' 'Write Like You Talk'  RTDNA

***THE BUSINESS OF JOURNALISM

Should a Colorado library publish local news?  Columbia Journalism Review

Gannett shareholders reject efforts to push the country’s biggest newspaper chain to sell itself  Harvard’s Nieman Lab 

***FAKE NEWS 

Poynter’s list of 515 ‘unreliable’ sites was itself unreliable: Why did Poynter fail to contact websites or list creators?  iMedia Ethics 

'Fake News' Is a Really Dangerous Excuse for Censorship  Reason 

Finnish kids are better at spotting fake news than Americans  Quartz

When The New York Times Got Duped into Publishing "The Lexicon of Grunge" in 1992  Open Culture 

Finland is winning the war on fake news  CNN

***SCAMS   

Virtual kidnappings are rattling families across the US  CNN  

US pastor runs network giving 50,000 Ugandans bleach-based 'miracle cure' The Guardian  

Trump supporters who donated to GoFundMe wall now worry they got scammed  Salon  

Heiress allegedly faked lavish, star-studded wedding for attention  New York Post

 ***PERSONAL GROWTH 

Clever or Pleasant  Becoming (my blog)

Howard Stern’s new Self-awareness  Hollywood Reporter 

Stop trying to ‘find’ meaningful work (and create it instead)  Fast Company

Breaking My Own Silence: Power is the confidence to speak for yourself  New York Times

***WRITING & READING 

Your Complete Guide to Popular Literary Devices in Great  Book Riot Writing  

How to answer when someone asks how you’ll make money as a writer  Slate

***LITERATURE 

The story of Ernest Hemingway’s $187,000 magazine expenses claim  Columbia Journalism Review 

Jia Zhangke Begins Shooting Documentary About Chinese Literature  Hollywood Reporter

***POETRY

Who needs poetry? We all do – and we need it now  The Guardian

New website uses AI to generate stories, articles and poetry  Critical Hit

A poetry-writing AI has just been unveiled. It’s ... pretty good  Vox 

Poetry for People Who Hate Poetry  Cleveland Scene  

Finding Your Inner Poet  The Nerd Daily  

When giving advice to graduates, I turn to  Chicago Tribune poetry 

Yemeni poetry thrives despite trauma of civil war  The Guardian  

Writing poetry saves a suffering modern woman  The Japan News  

Are we writing for other disabled people, for the nondisabled, or for everyone? The work of these poets speaks for itself  New York Times 

Manga: Writing poetry saves a suffering modern woman  Eleven Myanmar

No rhyme or reason for age limit on Oxford poetry professorship   The Guardian

How Poetry Helps Me Face an Invisible Illness  Sojourner Magazine  

***GENDER   

Female authors listed on just 30% of recent UK academic research  The Guardian

America’s Growing Gender Jail Gap  New York Books 

Why less that one-in-five data scientists are women  Tech Republic 

New studies on student evaluations of teaching say a simple intervention can fight gender bias  Inside Higher Ed

***RACE & ETHNICITY ISSUES

Data: race and class affect who gets ahead educationally regardless of academic talent: Spoiler alert: it helps to be wealthy and white  Inside Higher Ed 

The return of white supremacy  The Week  

Cure for hate: Former skinheads recall what turned them around  Union Tribune 

Al Jazeera suspends journalists for Holocaust denial video  BBC 

***FREE SPEECH

TV station takes First Amendment battle to high court  WCAX-TV

First Amendment vitals: Taking Gen Z’s pulse on free expression and inclusion  College Pulse

***LEGAL ISSUES 

Paparazzi Photographer Sues Ariana Grande For Instagram Pics  BuzzFeed News

Soon You May Not Even Have to Click on a Website Contract to Be Bound by Its Terms  Propublica

School Accreditor Raises Bar-Passage Standard  Inside Higher Ed  

***CRIME 

Junk Science: With the exception of DNA analysis, no forensic method has been rigorously shown to be effective  The Intercept 

Justice Department Forces Alabama To Address Deadly Prison Conditions  NPR

***RELIGION

Christian apologetics group at UCCS to be granted student club status under lawsuit settlement  Gazzette

After 40 years, 'megachurch' pastor slams Christianity and quits  Christian Post 

Conservatives working on a bill in Congress that would both create new federal LGBT rights and add religious exemptions (a leading advocate is CCCU)  BuzzFeed News

Celebrity prayer candles are a thing  Vox  

Here's why Sikhs were offended by this $790 Gucci turban  CNN

Nearly 7 in 10 Millennial Evangelicals Give, Says New Study   The Chronicle of Philanthropy

Many Americans see religious discrimination in U.S. – especially against Muslims   Pew Research Center 

Evangelical Lutheran Church Rallies Around Pastor, Family Detained By ICE  Huffington Post  

Losing Religion and Finding Ecstasy in Houston: The church I grew up in was so big we called it the Repentagon  The New Yorker 

***SOUTHERN BAPTISTS

Southern Baptist seminary turmoil leaves stained glass artists picking up the pieces  Religious News Service 

Jerry Falwell Jr. Just Accused Dr. Russell Moore of Being a Part of the ‘SBC Deep State’  Relevant Magazine 

10 Women Who Are Changing the Southern Baptist Response to Abuse  Christianity Today

Debate over women in Southern Baptist pulpits flares on social media  Baptist News 

***GOOD NEWS

Man panhandling near freeway rushed to save people from fiery crash  KDVR-TV 

Marathon runners in last place inspire each other to cross the finish line  NBC News

Blind teen creates Braille menus for local restaurants  ABC-7 

Teens stranded at sea cried out to God for help: Then a boat named "Amen" rescued them  CBS News 

92-year-old World War II veteran gets high school diploma with his grandson WTAE-TV 

A former college football wide receiver stops an armed student in a high school parking lot   ESPN

He couldn’t speak as a child. Now this autistic student is giving a commencement address  MSNBC

***REALLY?!

A South African man was arrested for eating at KFC for free for an entire year. He told employees that he was from HQers and checking quality assurance..   India Today

Costly face tattoo removals on the rise as regret sets in  New York Daily News

The boy in the photo A napalm attack, an orphan  and a life-changing message three decades later  BBC 

A billboard worker fell while working on a billboard advertising personal injury lawyers  New York Post 

Cafeteria worker fired for giving free lunch to boy who couldn't pay  Associated Press  

Florida city fines man $30,000 for tall grass; Now the city is foreclosing on his home  Tampa Bay Times

Long Island man busted using dummy to drive in carpool lane New York Post

***ART & DESIGN

Sacred Spaces: The Grand Interiors of Modern Churches Across Europe and Japan This is Colossal 

***THE BUSINESS OF MEDIA  

Spanish-language media is having a local news boom  Axios

Quartz, built on free distribution, has put its articles behind a paywall  Harvard Nieman Lab

Judge: Florida-based broadcaster is Russian foreign agent  ABC News

Coming to a TV near you: personalized ads  Axios 

Radhika Jones Introduces Vanity Fair’s Full Digital Archive  Vanity Fair

***STUDENT MEDIA  

Student journalists at Transylvania University say administrators have taken away their pay in an attempt to stop their work  Inside Higher Ed

Moody Bible Institute to stop publishing student paper  Religious News Service

This teen journalist got the scoop on Bill de Blasio's presidential campaign  NBC News

Appeals Court rules in favor of student newspaper in legal battle with University over documents relating to a university-conducted sexual misconduct investigation  Kentucky Kernel 

Rutgers newspaper launches GoFundMe campaign after student funding support falls short  North Jersey

***FREELANCING 

18 newsletters every freelance journalist needs to subscribe to  Muckrack

Essays about mother love for a series  Longreads

Freelance pitches  Ms. Magazine 

Disability stories  Gal-Dem Magazine

Freelance writers  Crunchbase News 

Opinion pieces about games and diversity  Queerly Represent  

Freelance contributor  Lit Reactor 

Freelance writers  Blop Culture 

***SOCIAL ISSUES 

Surging Suicide Rate Among Young Girls Raises Questions About Role of Social Media  Bloomberg 

Whats Polls Say About Abortion Views  NPR 

Map: The richest and poorest parts of America  Axios 

Mexican Government Helped Surveillance Effort On Journalists, Attorneys, and Others at U.S.-Mexico Border  NBC San Diego 

***BUSINESS & FINANCE

Work experience poor predictor of future job performance  Phys.org 

I took Yale’s ‘most popular class ever’—and it completely changed how I spend my money  CNBC 

***ENVIRONMENT

Why the Guardian is changing the language it uses about the environment  The Guardian  

***HEALTH 

Allegations of widespread fraud raise questions about the safety of generic drugs made overseas  CBS News

Why Your Doctor’s White Coat Can Be a Threat to Your Health  New York Times

A $330 Thermometer Claimed To Be 99.4% Accurate In Preventing Pregnancy: The Study It Was Based On Just Got Retracted  BuzzFeed News  

Why the Government Pays Billions to People Who Claim Injury by Vaccines  The Atlantic

***HEALTH: PREVENTATIVE 

Why Walking is the Key to Being More Productive  GQ 

It's Not Just Salt, Sugar, Fat: Study Finds Ultra-Processed Foods Drive Weight Gain  NPR 

Sunscreens may enter bloodstream, but health effect unknown, study finds  NBC News

***HEALTHCARE COSTS 

A Wave Of Rural Hospital Closures Tests Communities Across The U.S.  NPR

Many Americans Will Need Long-Term Care: Most Won’t be Able to Afford It  New York Times 

***TRAVEL 

He visited all 419 national park sites in 3 years to honor his late father. Here's how  USA Today

A Bird’s-Eye View of Beaches Around the World  Condé Nast Traveler 

Rocks, tarantulas and the subtle poetry of a walk along the San Andreas fault  LA Times

***SPORTS & GAMES 

The eSports Boom, and the Numbers Behind the Sector’s Explosive Growth  Visual Capitalist

A History of Baseball in Ten Pitches  The Week  

Softball Team Pulls Off Hidden Ball Trick To Absolute Perfection (video)  Trine SportsInfo

***FOOD & DRINK

Soda sales fizzled thanks to Philadelphia's pop tax   PopSci  

Researchers Say Evidence Shows What You Eat Really Does Matter  NPR

Vanilla Fever: How did hunger for the humble vanilla pod lead to greed, crime and riches? 1843 Magazine

***FAMILY 

The most popular baby names from 2018  Social Security Admin  Social Security 

Americans' support for same-sex marriage has doubled since 2004 People-Press

Co-parenting apps help divorced parents with childrearing  WGN-TV 

Taiwan legalizes same-sex marriage in historic first for Asia  CNN

A global snapshot of same-sex marriage  Pew Research Center 

Raise a Problem-Solving Kid by Talking Less and Questioning More  Life Hacker 

***ANIMALS 

Face Swap Your Pet Into Another Species With This AI Tool  Vice

Grumpy Cat, titan of the internet, is dead  CNN 

Man Jumps Into New York River to Rescue Dog  Inside Edition 

25 Benefits of Adopting a Rescue Dog  Mental Floss 

***SCIENCE

Billions of black holes  The Week 

The story of the birth of chaos theory has left out two programming pioneers  Quanta Magazine  

Billion-Dollar Gamble: How A 'Singular Hero' Helped Start A New Field In Physics  NPR  

***POLITICS

Which FL election offices were hacked? Supervisors are asked  Miami Herald

***PSYCHOLOGY 

The Troubled History of Psychology  The New Yorker 

How your friends change your habits - for better and worse  BBC

How Stack Up uses video games to save veterans from mental illness and suicide  Venture Beat  

Death of a close friend 'can impact health for years'   BBC

***NEUROSCIENCE   

Scientists start to unravel how the brain forgets  Axios 

Why Does The Brain Connect Pain With Emotions?  NPR

Why can’t some people remember their dreams?  BBC 

Does aging make us more susceptible to financial scams?  Marketplace

***PHILOSOPHY

What is the most important philosophy book of all-time? WGN Radio

***HISTORY 

How Upton Sinclair’s 1934 run for governor of California inspired a cult   Lapham’s Quarterly  

Aztec allies ritually disfigured captured Spaniards' remains ABC News

Muslims came to America more than a century before Protestants, and in great numbers. How was their history forgotten?  Aeon 

***RESEARCH 

Are p-values a gateway drug to dichotomous thinking? Or is it the other way round? Replication Work 

25 Ways to Increase Your Chances at Publication  Inside Higher Ed

Study: Academics rarely comment on articles  Scholarly Kitchen

***HIGHER ED

American Students Have Changed Their Majors Health professions are in, education and the humanities are out  Bloomberg 

Portland State President, Under Fire, Resigns  Inside Higher Ed

Dozens walk out of Pence address to Christian University graduates  The Hill

Liberty U vs. Southwest Baptist Theological Seminary  Inside Higher Ed

What if evangelical students heard more than one side of the global warming debate? (opinion)  Christian Post 

Drew University rethinks ties to Methodist church  NewJersey.com

Evangelical college announces cuts to majors, 11 faculty members laid off  Inside Higher Ed

Facing Rising Costs And Charges Of Intolerance, Gordon College Plots A Future  WBUR

Faculty, Department Cuts Rock Christian University  Tartan (student newspaper)

Southwestern College journalism professor battle cancer  Times of San Diego

***TEACHING 

Are Students Just Telling Us What We Want to Hear?  Daily Jstor

Can Schools ‘Teach Students to Think’?  The Atlantic  

This school district outsourced many of its high school courses to an online program. But it’s not clear students are learning Clalkbeat

***STUDENT LIFE

This student decorated her graduation cap with QR code that sends people to a list of high school shooting victims  CNN 

This Is the Best Way to Take Notes, According to Science  Curiosity 

SAT Adversity Score: College Board will use SAT exam to give students "adversity score" in bid to level playing field  CBS News 

College grads still earn more than workers with no university degree: This map shows the states with the widest salary gaps  Business Insider 

***ACADEMIC LIFE 

Reviewing course evaluations: the drinking game  McSweeneys

She Didn’t Get An ‘A’ So She Accused Professor Of Sexual Harassment. Then She Held Ex At Knifepoint To Destroy Evidence  News-Gazette  

A dead professor, two naked men and a suicide: 'It’s one of the strangest cases that we’ve ever worked'  USA Today 

It seems like..

Former FBI negotiator Chris Voss writes in Never Split The Difference, his manual of persuasive techniques, there are five stages in what’s known as the “behavioural change stairway model” that take anyone from “listening to influencing behaviour”. The first stage is active listening – namely, being able to show the other person that you have taken in what they’ve said and, more importantly, have a sense of what it means to them.  Rather than focusing on what you want to say, listen to what the other person is telling you, then try to repeat it back to them. Start with, “It seems like what you’re saying is” or “Can I just check, it sounds like what you’re saying is”. If that feels too contrived, it often works simply to repeat the last sentence or thought someone has expressed (known in counselling practice as “reflecting”).  What to say Try, “It seems like you’re feeling frustrated with this situation – is that right?” Always give the other person the opportunity to comment on or correct your assessment. 

Rosie Ifould writing in The Guardian